who knows what the future has for us....

i did a gr8 job today..just like jab we met scene, i burnt pages of my personal diary in which i had written about someone spl few year back. i enjoyed the heat because its cold here in delhi..laughing with my gr8 buddy!!. after sometime i realised who really knows what will happen with us in the future!! kal kisne dekha hai. people for whom we fight or with whom we fight might not be there. love for which we go crazy and think we cant live without are the people whom we really want to live without. years back when i was writing those pages of the diary i never thought i will be burning them one day. the passion with which i wrote and what i wrote turned into ashes!!! but to reach this point i have also gone through enough of hardship. But finally we overcome everything...the good and the bad. the moment events happen we pray the people and events stay forever(only if we are happy) and feel depressed and go through emotional hardship when things dont turn the way we want. so is it not true that nothing lasts forever...nothing is permanent neither the good nor the bad. but the main thing is how do we realise it while the event is going on?...knowing that we really do not knw what the future is we strive to make the future according to us. but all in vain...things at times never happen the way we want them to happen..atleast relationships. so i collect the ashes of the burnt pages and wonder -finally the energy we spent in building relationship we really never know how long it will last...one day everything is about to change. some understand it through rough road and some sail through and after i burnt those pages i realised i have sailed though.